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Understanding the Distinction: Submissive vs Bottom Explained
When it comes to the world of BDSM, terms like "submissive" and "bottom" are often used interchangeably, but in reality, they have clear meanings and roles within the community. Understanding the nuances between these two terms is crucial for anyone exploring this lifestyle.
What is a Submissive?
A obedient is someone who willingly relinquishes control to a dominant partner in a BDSM relationship. Submissives savor following orders, receiving discipline, and serving their dominant partner. They often locate pleasure in being managed and derive satisfaction from fulfilling their partner's desires.
What is a Bottom?
On the other hand, a bottom refers to someone who takes on the receiving role in a BDSM scene. Bottoms may relish being spanked, tied up, or otherwise receiving physical sensations during play. Unlike submissives, bottoms do not necessarily crave the influence dynamic or psychological aspects of submission.
Key Differences
While both submissives and bottoms love being on the receiving end of BDSM acti
What Bottoms Want: A Guide For Good Topping
6. Condom Negotiation
Before having sex, it’s best to have a conversation about condoms, where everybody is on the same page and doesn’t feel pressured into anything they don’t want to do, for fear of not having sex (any bottoms out there reading this? If a top says they won’t sleep with you because you want them to wear a condom – that’s a red flag! Walk away, hon!). Allowing people to opt the prevention method that works best for them means that everyone can feel comfortable and empowered during their sexual experiences.
FYI, tops – it is sexual assault to ‘stealth’ someone during sex. ‘Stealthing’ is where the condom is intentionally broken or removed during sex, without the bottom’s consent. This is totally not okay to do, even if you have seen it done in porn. The bottom line is that ‘stealthing’ causes harm and The Spinoff said it best in this article “It’s not ‘stealthing’ – it’s rape.”.
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Being a Submissive Bottom Doesn&#;t Deny me My Self-Respect
Ever since I can think of I was always attracted to guys of other nationalities and races. I guess I got through to my 40’s without realising why.
I was in London. My friends were at a matinee theatre reveal. I wanted to see a diverse show (that was only on in the evening). So I was walking around near the hotel filling in time. A guy in a jet Mercedes flashed his headlights at me. I circled advocate . He wound down his window. I said “What are you up to?” He said, “Just looking for a guy or a girl to disburse time with.”
Anyway, we walked to my hotel, and I had my first real experience with a guy. He was older than me – perhaps in his 30’s. We kissed, and lay on the bed. I sucked him. And he asked if I had any lube. I didn’t realize what he meant (it was my first time). But I got the idea that he wanted to fuck me, and needed something to produce it easier. I grabbed shampoo from the bathroom. So the first day was so astounding, but it injure like hell for a few days (yeah, I learnt not to apply shampoo as lube the hard way).
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Understanding and embracing your sexual persona as a gay man is like finally finding the missing piece to a puzzle. It&#;s liberating, it&#;s empowering, and it&#;s downright fabulous. But, we all know that the journey to self-discovery can be a brief complicated, and that&#;s okay! When it comes to gay sexuality, one of the most confusing things can be figuring out if you&#;re a top or a bottom. Don&#;t worry, that&#;s where we come in! In this post, we&#;re gonna split it down, talk about the signs that indicate you may be a submissive gay bottom and explore the complexities of this specific aspect of male lover sexuality, and help to provide a better understanding of it. So, grab a drink, and let&#;s dive in!
What is a submissive gay bottom?
Being a passive bottom is all about embracing your desires and taking govern of your own pleasure. It&#;s about being open to recent experiences, exploring your limits, and finding what makes you truly happy. Whether that means taking the receptive role during intercourse or being tied up and restrained, it&#;s all about surrendering contro