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A Beginner’s Guide to Bottoming During Sex
FOR THOSE WHO bottom, it can be the ultimate act of pleasure. But for some—regardless of if you are new to it, returning to the bottom bunk, or still trying your best to enjoy it—it can feel like an uncomfortable chore.
Just to clear up exactly what we’re walking about here: “bottoming” refers to creature a receptive partner during anal sex. The bottom is the partner that is taking the penis or dildo inside of them, while the person who is the insertive partner is often referred to as a “top” or the person “topping.”
Verbiage aside, bottoming can cause a lot of people anxiety. I represent, it’s obvious why: despite anal sex being completely normal, it’s rarely talked about. And in a world where people are barely even taught about vaginal sex, there’s even less taught to people, regardless of sexuality, about the ins and outs of going in the backdoor.
The anus might get a bad rap, or a reputation that it’s more of an exit than an entrance, but that’s simply not true. Anal sex can be pleasurable, and entity on the receiving close can be h
In a sexual context, bottoming is the act of taking a dick (or a dick-shaped object) in your ass. When it comes to gay and bi men, a lot of people seem kind of obsessed with functional out who&#;s a top/giver and who&#;s a bottom/receiver, but in reality many MSM (men who have sex with men) do both and some accomplish neither. In , it&#;s painfully heteronormative to presume that sexual intercourse has to involve a hole being filled by something cock-shaped.
On one level, bottoming is really no big deal – if you enjoy riding dick, proceed ahead and drive it. But on another, butt-fucking is still cloaked in myth and stigma. “There&#;s an association that those who bottom are feminine and those who top are masculine,” says Ian Howley, CEO of the health and wellbeing charity LGBT HERO. “And we all know where that stigma comes from: Hello, toxic masculinity.”
Happily, Howley says this reductive presumption is finally dying out as we all become more open-minded. “You now observe lots of &#;masculine&#; men who appreciate bottoming, including vertical men who finally found out just how much pleasure they can ge
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Here are some quick tips and tricks from ACON’s Peer Education team that will get you topping those bottoms like a pro in no time.
1. Foreplay before play
When topping for the first second it can be intimidating so we recommend building a lot of trust with your companion by exploring each other’s bodies through foreplay before starting insertive sex.
2. Talk the talk
Communication is incredibly important when you are topping, particularly if it&#;s for the first time. Get relaxed checking in with your loved one and asking them how they liked to be fucked. (do they need foreplay? Do they need to be fingered?) Equally, if you know there is something that your partner does that makes you rock strenuous then ask for it!
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Learning to Bottom: First Time
We had just finished up and I was ready to leave. Guy seemed to be showing me out of his place. I had just stood up from the couch, on my way out, when he stepped into my space. I was standing in front of the couch and could not step back. He lingered for a scant moments and brought his hand up from his side. Guy's hand brushed my crotch as if by accident, but his motion stopped. He cupped his fingers around by bulge and gave me a slight squeeze. My eyes were drawn down watching his hand.
He held me and the warmth of his palm radiated into my penis. It grew and responded all by itself. Guy kept his grip pulsing on my expanding boner. I hardened quickly as only the young can. He pulled his hand up along my belly and then down under the waistline of my shorts against my bare skin. The sensation of another's touch tingled thru my cock for the first time. I had never experienced the excitement of rapture before. The feeling of almost orgasm seeped through me in waves. I had no notion what was happening or where this was going and did not yearn it to stop. E